Free Resources

Free resources

Your free resource library

Welcome. Everything here is yours to explore at your own pace 🤍

These tools are designed to help you reconnect with your body, build confidence, and experience more satisfying pleasure – without pressure!

Start wherever you like.

Need help? Email me at lisa@lisawelsh.com and I’ll get you sorted.


Video & audio resources

Use these free tools any time.

🎁 Free: 3 Strokes Every Man Should Know

Quick, practical solo-play techniques to add variety and more sensation to your routine.

Riding Solo course
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Riding Solo — 30 days, 17 strokes, full body reset. $27 one-off.

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🎧 Free: Sensual Guided Audio for Men

A slow, sensual experience to help you drop into your body, relax your nervous system, and enjoy feeling instead of performing.

The Library
Want more of this?

The Library — 30+ guided audio sessions like this one. $5 first month.

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📄 Body Image & Sexual Confidence for Men

A supportive guide to feeling more comfortable in your body and more confident in your sexuality.

The Library
Go deeper

The Library — body awareness, breathwork & erotic audio. $5 first month.

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PDF downloads

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📄 2 Sexy Date Ideas

2 Sexy Date Ideas

Simple, thoughtful ideas to help you create anticipation, intimacy, and connection.

FLAMES course
Take it further

FLAMES — 6 modules on desire, initiation & intimacy for couples. $37 one-off.

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📄 JOI Scripts for Couples

Guided scripts to help you explore instruction, anticipation, and playful power dynamics together.

FLAMES course
Ready for the full picture?

FLAMES — communication, her pleasure, confidence & connection. $37 one-off.

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📄 Find Your Findom

A grounded guide to understanding desire, power exchange, and conscious exploration.

The Library
Explore more

The Library — erotic & guided audio for curious men. $5 first month.

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📄 26 Saucy Ideas (A–Z inspiration)

A fun A–Z menu of ideas to spark novelty, play, and confidence — pick one and run with it.

Riding Solo course
Ready to go deeper?

Riding Solo — structured 30-day solo pleasure course. $27 one-off.

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📄 A Man’s Guide to Enhanced Sexual Confidence

A practical confidence reset: body image, performance pressure, pleasure focus, and better communication — without the cringe.

Riding Solo course
Put it into practice

Riding Solo — confidence + technique, built over 30 days. $27 one-off.

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