Your body is still there.
You’ve just stopped
listening to it.
- Sex — solo or partnered — has become something you rush through, zone out for, or feel quietly ashamed of afterwards.
- You’ve tried to cut back, or stop entirely. But nothing really changes — you just feel worse about it.
- You’re not sure when pleasure started feeling like a problem instead of something that belongs to you.
- You want guidance — something intelligent, structured, shame-free — but everything out there is either clinical or sleazy.
- You miss feeling connected to your body. You just don’t know how to get back there.
“Wonderful, relaxing, reconnecting. I will return to this often. It’s nice to hear that I am enough, I am.”Library Member
Your first month for $5. Start listening tonight.
Start Listening for $5First month $5 · then $12/month · cancel anytime
30+ guided audio sessions.
One private library.
Always growing.
The Library is a private audio membership — a growing collection of guided sessions designed specifically for men who want to reconnect with their bodies, their pleasure, and themselves.
Think of it like a meditation app. But instead of mindfulness, it’s designed to guide you into deeper physical awareness, genuine pleasure, and the kind of confidence that comes from actually knowing your own body.
Every session is voiced by a real sex educator. No sleaze. No guilt. Just clear, warm, structured guidance — available whenever you want it, completely privately.
Four types of session.
One complete practice.
Guided Self-Pleasure
Step-by-step audio sessions that guide you through techniques, pacing, and presence. Not a performance — a practice.
- Edging sessions
- Stroke guidance & technique
- Stamina training
- Slow pleasure exploration
Breath & Body Practices
Use your breath and body awareness to unlock deeper sensation, regulate your nervous system, and feel more fully present in your own skin.
- Breathwork for arousal
- Nervous system regulation
- Full-body awareness sessions
- Lingam breathing & kegel activation
Erotic Guidance
Immersive, instructional audio that blends coaching with erotic energy. Think guided fantasy — with purpose and intention behind every word.
- Praise & encouragement dynamics
- Instruction & obedience play
- Erotic coaching sessions
Emotional & Somatic Practices
Sessions designed to help you reconnect with your sexual self on a deeper level — releasing shame, building confidence, and coming back home to your body.
- Body scans & somatic awareness
- Reconnecting to sexual energy
- Confidence & self-worth practices
A few sessions
waiting for you tonight.
These are real sessions already inside The Library. You’ll have access to all 30+ from the moment you join.
Obey Me
An instructional, commanding session that guides you with precision and intention. You follow. You feel more.
Take Your Time
Slow edging paired with breathwork. The antidote to rushing. One of the most transformative sessions in the library.
From Flat to Full
Lingam breathing and kegel activation to wake your body up. Especially powerful for men who feel numb or disconnected.
Coming Home to Yourself
A 45-minute body scan meditation. Slow, grounding, and deeply reconnecting. The one members return to most.
The Library is for men who are
ready to feel something again.
Single, partnered, older, younger. No prerequisites. No shame. Just a better way to relate to your own body.
What men are saying
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“Wonderful, relaxing, reconnecting. I will return to this often. It’s nice to hear that I am enough, I am.”Library Member
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“I’ve never had anything like this before. It’s like having a guide for something I’ve always done completely alone. Genuinely life-changing.”Library Member
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“I put on a session and within minutes I felt more present in my own body than I have in years. This is exactly what I didn’t know I needed.”Library Member
I’m Lisa Welsh
Accredited Sex Educator. Certified Sex Coach. 6+ years helping men reconnect with their bodies, their pleasure, and themselves.
I built The Library because men deserve structured, intelligent support for their sexuality — not silence, not shame, and not another corner of the internet that makes them feel worse about themselves.
Every session in The Library is voiced by me. Warm, direct, and designed to actually work.
- Accredited Sex Educator & Certified Sex Coach
- 6+ years working with men on pleasure & confidence
- Featured on 702, 5FM, East Coast Radio & more
Pleasure is yours.
You just need a guide.
30+ sessions. New ones added regularly. Start tonight for $5.
Start Listening for $5First month $5 · then $12/month · cancel anytime
Frequently asked
Is this private? Will anyone know I’ve joined?
Completely private. You listen with headphones, on your own device. The membership appears on your bank statement under a discreet description. No one else needs to know.
What’s the difference between this and porn?
Everything. These are guided practices — structured, intentional, and designed to build awareness and skill. They’re closer to a meditation session than entertainment. The aim is to leave you feeling more connected, not more depleted.
How does the pricing work?
Your first month is $5. After that, it renews automatically at $12/month. You can cancel anytime — no penalties, no awkward process. Just go into your account settings and cancel in under a minute.
Do I need to have done Riding Solo first?
Not at all. The Library stands completely on its own. That said, if you’ve done Riding Solo, membership is the perfect way to keep building on what you learned — ongoing practice instead of a one-time course.
How do I listen? Is there an app?
You get access to a private members’ hub where all sessions are hosted. You can listen on any browser, or download the app for quick mobile access. Details are sent immediately after you join.
How often is new content added?
Regularly. The library launched with 30+ sessions and new recordings are added on an ongoing basis. Your membership always grows with you.
30 sessions from now,
you’ll feel completely different.
More present. More connected. More at home in your own body than you’ve been in years.
Then, from month two
$12 / month
Cancel anytime · No lock-in · Completely privateNew sessions added regularly — your library keeps growing as long as you’re a member.
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