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Sex writing that doesn’t flinch
and doesn’t titillate.
Fourteen years writing about sex. Five of them for the global organisations that set the standards, and five writing weekly for men who tell me things they have told nobody else.
Peer-reviewed
Sexual justice and the future of sexual rights: a call to action
International Journal of Sexual Health, 2026. Co-authored, peer-reviewed, and published by Taylor & Francis. The academic side of the same argument I make everywhere else: that sexual knowledge is unevenly distributed, and that this is a justice question rather than a lifestyle one.
Latest from the blog
What I’ve been writing lately
Porn in Marriage: Why You Feel Guilty (and What to Do About It)
You cleared the history again. Maybe you told yourself that was the last time. And still, the guilt sits there the next…
Fantasising About Someone Else During Sex: What It Means
I was on 702 with Clement Manyathela this morning, talking about fantasising about someone else during sex. The lines lit up straight…
Peak Erotic Experiences: What Your Best Sex Is Telling You
Is there a saucy encounter from your past that you still think about from time to time? It was probably years ago.…
Who I’ve written for
Five years writing for the organisations that set the standards.
I spent five years as the Communications Lead for the World Association for Sexual Health, the global body for sexual health and rights, and for My Sexual Health. Both involve declarations, position statements, congress and campaign communications, for an international audience.
Colleagues across the world trusted me with the public messaging on sexual health and rights: language that had to be accurate, careful, and hold up in every country it landed in.
World Association for Sexual Health
Communications Lead
My Sexual Health
Communications Lead
Selected features
Where else it’s run
Commissions and columns
Need someone who can write this without making it weird?
I write to brief, to deadline, and to word count. Features, columns, expert comment, explainers, and brand copy that has to be accurate as well as readable.
Subjects I cover: men’s sexual health, desire and mismatch, performance anxiety, pleasure and body awareness, sex after fifty, long-term relationships, sexual rights and access to education.
Send the brief, the word count and the deadline. Clippings and a rate card on request.
The full list
Every commissioned piece and quoted feature, by publication.
The Citizen
- The haunting missing link in the sex-pleasure gap – Read
- 7 ways to be a better lover – Read
- Seven secrets to better female orgasms – Read
- Why Gen Z is choosing friendship over romance – Read
- When can dating go sexual? – Read
- Performance anxiety: rising to the occasion – Read
- Nicole Kidman’s Babygirl and orgasm burnout – Read
- Ethical non-monogamy – Read
- Toxic dating trend: ghostlighting – Read
- Sleep divorce improves sex – Read
- Karezza: the slow food of sex – Read
- Autosexuality and self-lust – Read
- Sexting and role-play tips – Read
- Mankeeping is exhausting women – Read
- Findoms blend money and sexuality – Read
Glamour
Buddies for Life
Sex Coach U
Press and digital media
- News24: Lessons in the 5 sex languages – Read
- IOL: Why so many women are still faking orgasms – Read
- Clicks: How to improve your sex life – Read
- World Association for Sexual Health: Annual report – Read
- Frolo: Pleasure for single parents – Read
- Intimate Touch: How sexual wellness blooms into overall health – Read
- Insight News Network: Why many women still struggle to reach orgasm – Read
- Blazon Magazine: Why are so many women still not reaching their climax – Read
- Community Newsroom: South Africa’s persistent pleasure gap – Read
- Community Newsroom: Durex launches Mutual Climax – Read
- Ezimtoti News: The next chapter in sexual wellness – Read
- The Vibeza: Durex Mutual Climax, pleasure equality – Read
- The Voice of Wellness: Diving deep this National Sex Day – Read
- Voice of Wellness: The next chapter in sexual wellness – Read
- Soweto Life Magazine: Durex Mutual Climax condoms launched – Read
- Hypress Live: Why are so many women still not reaching their climax? – Read
- Hypress Live: Durex responds to calls for greater pleasure equality – Read
- The Deal Magazine: Why are so many women still not reaching their climax? – Read
- Timeless Trends Magazine: The next chapter in sexual wellness – Read
- Kasi Maverick: The next chapter in sexual wellness – Read
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