Tools for Men’s Sexual Wellness

For better solo time, better sex, and a better relationship with your body.

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Lisa’s Courses & Programmes

Everything below is built specifically for men. No fluff, no shame, no generic advice — just practical tools that work.

The Library by Lisa Welsh — guided erotic audio sessions for men

Monthly membership

The Library

$12/month — first month just $5

Guided erotic audio sessions designed for men who want more confidence, better control, and more fun — in bed and solo. Private, low-pressure, and genuinely good.

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Riding Solo — solo pleasure course for men by Lisa Welsh

Online course

Riding Solo

$27 — one-off

20 video lessons covering 17 strokes, 12 pleasure boosters, edging, self-massage, prostate play, kink, erotica, and more. Everything you need to upgrade solo pleasure for good.

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FLAMES — intimacy and desire course for men by Lisa Welsh

Online course

FLAMES

$37 — one-off

The full picture — desire, emotional intimacy, communication, confidence, and technique. Built for men in long-term relationships who want a genuinely better sex life, not just tips.

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More Free Resources

Two more free guides worth grabbing — no catch, no pressure.

Body Confidence Audio for Men — free from Lisa Welsh

Free audio

Body Confidence Audio

A guided audio session to help you feel more at ease in your body — and more present during sex. Practical, not woo-woo.

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JOI Scripts for Couples — free from Lisa Welsh

Free guide

JOI Scripts for Couples

Ready-to-use scripts for couples who want to add direction and playfulness to solo or partnered sessions. Lower the awkward, raise the heat.

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The Toys Men Love Most

These are the ones I personally recommend to men who want more pleasure, more control, and more confidence without adding pressure or awkwardness. They’re quiet, discreet, easy to use, and honestly… way more fun than most men expect.

Solo play

Lovense Solace Pro automatic stroker

Solace Pro — The “Holy Sh*t, I Didn’t Know Toys Could Do This” Stroker

Lovense Gush 2 glans massager

Gush 2 — The Glans Massager That Makes Everything More Intense

Lovense Diamo vibrating cock ring

Diamo — The Vibrating Cock Ring That Works for Both of You

Prostate play

Lovense Edge 2 prostate massager

Edge 2 — The Best First Prostate Toy (Beginner-Friendly)

Lovense Hush 2 vibrating butt plug

Hush 2 — The Wearable Butt Plug for Beginners and Beyond

Lovense Ridge thrusting prostate massager

Ridge — The Hands-Free Prostate Massager That Does the Work for You

Couples

Lovense Domi 2 wand vibrator

Domi 2 — The App-Controlled Wand That Closes the Orgasm Gap

Lovense Gemini vibrating nipple clamps

Gemini — Vibrating Nipple Clamps That Add a Whole New Dimension

Lovense Ferri magnetic panty vibrator

Ferri — The Discreet Panty Vibe You Control from Your Phone

Kenneth Play — free squirting tutorial

Free tutorial

Make Her Squirt — Free Tutorial by Kenneth Play

Kenneth Play is one of the most practical sex educators working today. This free tutorial breaks down exactly how to make a woman squirt — step by step, no guesswork. Clear instruction, real technique, zero fluff.

If you’ve ever wanted to give her that experience, this is the most reliable place to start.

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Research-backed platform

OMGYes — The Science of Female Pleasure, Finally Explained Clearly

OMGYes is the most practical, research-backed resource available for understanding how women actually experience pleasure. Real women, real techniques — pressure, speed, rhythm, angle, tempo. You see everything clearly, step by step.

This will upgrade your skill set more than anything else available online. Not in a porn way. In a “I actually know what I’m doing now” way.

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OMGYes — understanding female pleasure