5 Sex Newsletters for Men Worth Actually Subscribing To
Most sex content online is aimed at either women or a much younger audience. It doesn’t speak to men who want practical, useful information about pleasure, confidence, and connection — whether they’re in a relationship or not.
A good newsletter delivers that material directly, consistently.
1. My Newsletter — Lisa Welsh
This is my newsletter — so take that for what it’s worth. It goes out every Tuesday and is written specifically for men who want practical, shame-free information about sex, pleasure, and intimacy.
Each edition covers something specific — female arousal, desire discrepancy, sexual confidence, solo practice, toy recommendations. Whatever is genuinely worth covering that week. The tone is direct and the content is practical — not motivational fluff.
If the content on this site resonates with you, the newsletter is the same voice applied to a new topic every week. Subscribe here.
Get on the list.
Honest, practical, shame-free conversations about sex and pleasure — every Tuesday, straight to your inbox.
2. Cam Fraser
Cam Fraser is an accredited sexologist and sex coach working primarily with men. His newsletter goes beyond surface-level tips. He covers the psychology of arousal, pleasure, performance anxiety, and the mechanics of good sex with genuine depth.
Cam’s writing is worth reading if you want to understand what’s actually happening physiologically and psychologically. He covers both when things work well and when they don’t. Subscribe here.
3. Kenneth Play
Kenneth Play is a sex educator whose focus is almost entirely on technique — specifically, techniques for giving women more pleasure. His newsletter covers oral sex, squirting, G-spot stimulation, and the mechanics of arousal in a detailed, practical way that most mainstream sex content doesn’t touch.
His material is technically precise and evidence-informed. It’s genuinely useful for men who want to understand what they’re doing rather than just trying things at random. Sign-up gives access to his signature squirting technique as a bonus. Subscribe here. (Link is NSFW.)
His full course, Beyond Satisfied Pro, goes deeper on everything his newsletter covers — worth knowing about if his approach resonates.
4. Men’s Health — The Hookup
Men’s Health publish a weekly sex and relationships newsletter called The Hookup. It’s broader and more mainstream than the others on this list — lighter on depth, heavier on variety. Worth subscribing to if you want accessible content across sex, relationships, and health. It’s lighter on depth than the others, but covers a broad range of topics each week. Subscribe here.
5. The Ultimate Guide to Men’s Health
This newsletter takes a broader view of male sexual health — covering vitality, longevity, and sexual function as a man ages. If questions about testosterone, erectile health, and maintaining sexual capability into your 50s and 60s are relevant to you, this is worth adding. Subscribe here.
Reading is a start — practice is what changes things
Newsletters give you information. What changes your sex life is applying it — which takes a different kind of resource. The Library is a private collection of guided audio sessions for men. It covers body awareness, arousal control, stamina, and presence. The internal work that makes the information in newsletters actually land differently in practice. $12/month, first month just $5.
Frequently asked questions
Are sex newsletters private?
Yes — subscribing to a newsletter requires only an email address and arrives directly in your inbox. None of the newsletters listed here display subscriber information publicly or share your details with third parties. If you’re concerned about privacy, use a secondary email address.
Which newsletter is best for men in long-term relationships?
My newsletter is built for men who want practical, shame-free information about sex and pleasure — whether they’re in a long-term relationship, navigating desire discrepancy, or simply want to understand their own sexuality better. Kenneth Play is worth adding if you want to focus specifically on female pleasure technique. Cam Fraser is worth adding if you want to go deeper on the psychological and physiological side of male sexuality.